“Violence is not ok.” Let’s be aware about concerning signs in intimate relationships
Intimate relationships are important parts of our lives. We are happy when we feel safe in our relationships, trust, love and respect each other. However, sometimes we may not notice how certain patterns exist in our relationships that affect their harmony and process, and they can sometimes put us in danger.
Sometimes the signs of disharmony in our intimate relationships can be obvious, sometimes not. In any case, we can recognize them by being attentive how we feel: How do I feel in my relationship with my partner? Am I safe? Am I calm? Do my relationships “give me wings”, support my personal growth and development, or do they lead me to feelings of oppression, tension, or anxiety?
In June, Pink published posters and videos aiming to highlight common signs of harmony and disharmony in our intimate relationships. The posters show both harmonious representations in our relationships, as well as “toxic” or violent ones. And the “Looking for a partner” video shows us the signs that we need to pay attention to when we start a relationship or are already in a relationship.
It is ok to notice signs of disharmony in relationships, but it’s not ok not to act or not seek support. In June, another video was published, “Support is available in Armenia when facing violence,” which highlights how to distinguish signs of violence, what to expect when seeking support, and where to turn.
It is important to remember that if you are subjected to violence, it is never your fault, it is the abuser’s fault, and support is available in Armenia.
Everyone deserves to have harmonious relationships, to be loved and to feel safe. That is OK.
